Remote Divorce & Family Mediation

Remote Divorce & Family Mediation

A neutral remote process for divorce and family transitions, including the work of establishing or modifying practical arrangements.

A participant taking part in a remote family mediation session

With more than 20 years of experience as a professional mediator, Heidi Cochrane supports a structured, participant-led conversation in which people can identify priorities, hear one another, and explore customized options for the realities they face.

Remote sessions can be useful for families in the same community or far apart, including across cities, countries, and time zones, and for people whose schedules, health, caregiving responsibilities, or other circumstances make in-person meetings difficult.

The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for participants; the work stays centered on a respectful, practical conversation.

Divorce and family mediation topics

Divorce and two households

The practical financial, property, debt, support, and household questions that can arise when one shared life becomes two.

Family arrangements and parenting

Where children are involved: schedules, communication, travel, expenses, and the practical questions that arise between homes.

Customized, participant-led solutions

A voluntary, respectful process in which participants can shape an individualized agreement and take ownership of the outcome.

Divorce mediation: financial and household questions

Participants may choose to begin with the practical financial context of divorce: allocation of assets and debts, retirement contributions or distributions, high-value assets, family business interests, ongoing financial partnerships, maintenance or support, housing, and the costs of establishing two independent households. By participating directly in a customized agreement, people can pursue a more cost-conscious and amicable resolution that better supports their financial and emotional well-being.

Modifying arrangements as circumstances change

Participants may return to mediation to discuss modifications to prior arrangements or agreements when life changes. Examples include a relocation, a new job or shift in income, a changed business or housing situation, different caregiving needs, or an earlier schedule that no longer works. The goal is a practical conversation about an updated arrangement that fits the circumstances now.

Family arrangements and parenting across regions and borders

Families may also explore parenting schedules, child-related expenses and support, holidays, third-party involvement, international or cross-jurisdictional travel logistics, communication, and special school, medical, or religious considerations. Remote participation can help families address these daily realities when distance, time zones, work, or caregiving make in-person meetings difficult.

Mediation across distance, states, and borders

Explore more about remote family mediation for particular cross-regional circumstances:

Each participant remains responsible for obtaining independent advice from a qualified professional as needed. Mediation may not be appropriate where there are concerns about safety, coercion, abuse, an inability to participate freely, or an urgent need for protection.

Prepared by Heidi Cochrane, Founder and Principal Mediator
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Last reviewed: September 29, 2026

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